Why do men play around when they know full well they will eventually get caught and it ends up hurting someone else's feelings? What it comes down to for these types of guys is the thrill of the chase, they get so wrapped up in the sexual tension and chasing, it becomes somewhat of an addiction. 

为什么男人们在完全了解最终会被逮住的情况下，还会四处留情，并以伤害其他人的感情为收场？对这种男人的所做所为可以归因为追逐令他们产生快感，他们被性紧张和追求欲束缚得太紧了，以致都变得有点儿上瘾了。

Ok so that's all well and good for them, but what about if you are on the receiving end of this, how bad is this going to make you feel when you find out he's cheating on you or he's thinking about it? Terrible of course! 

这样对他们当然好，但如果是你遭遇这些会怎样呢？当你发现他在欺骗你，或是正想骗你时，会令你有多难过？当然糟透了！

However there are a few things you should know if you want to spot whether he is that type of guy and what you need to do to get out quickly before you get hurt, so let's get started... " Warning: Is Your Guy A Player?" 

然而，有些事你应该知道，如果你想认出他是不是那种男人，你需要做的是在你受伤前尽早脱身，那就让我们开始吧：“注意：你的男人是个花花公子吗？”

1. He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front of you.

1. 他会在你面前无耻的跟别的女人调情

Players are often always thinking about where the next one is coming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantly flirt with other women right under your nose.

花花公子经常琢磨下个女人会从哪儿来。其中一个毛病就是，他可能就在你鼻子底下，公然与其他女人调情。

I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl he talks to, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, or making inappropriate physical contact with every girl who comes over.

我并没让你对跟他说话的每个女孩儿都起疑心，但当心他交换很多电话号码，跟每个遇到的女孩儿都有不寻常的身体触碰。

2. He openly talks about other women in your presence.

2. 有你在场时他公然谈论其他女人

Some players will be completely untactful about showing (or evenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women.

有些花花公子完全没有分寸，他们显出（或甚至直接告诉你！）其他女人对自己的吸引力。

Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is either trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that he's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign ofa player).

任何在你面前说其他女人“性感”的男的要么就是企图让你嫉妒，要么就是清楚的表明他根本不在乎你的感受（花花公子的另一个标志）。

3. He's uncurious about you as a person.

3. 他对你的为人并不感到好奇

Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficial characteristics. 

花花公子往往有不介意你过去的肤浅特点。

Usually a "player" type will want you because he's sexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that will help him know you better as a person. 

往往一个“花花公子”类型的人想要你，是因为他受到了性吸引，而不是真的想通过问问题，来帮他更好的了解你的为人。