孩子是在父母潜移默化中成长

　　教育孩子，要从娃娃抓起。孩子们从小的生长环境和父母的教育方法很直接的影响着孩子将来以后的生活。父母都是希望孩子将来能够成长为他们所期盼的那样，有工作、有能力、有地位，然而殊不知，一个人只有了能力、工作、地位也是不够的。教育孩子，就是要孩子身心都能健康良好的发展，所以，父母在这里就起到了至关重要的作用。每个父母在孩子小的时候都是身体力行的授教者，他们的一言一行总能影响着孩子的思想，甚至包括孩子早期的性格也是受父母的影响而形成的。

　　You weren't allowed to choose your own clothes: You become codependent.

　　If you had a "Super parent" who didn't allow you to dress yourself, choose your own playmates or food, you'll end up as a codependent adult.

　　You had controlling parents: You become a stubborn adult.

　　Stubbornness is a defense mechanism that children adopt in order to escape their controlling parents' will. The children will also likely grow up to inherit this trait.

　　You played lots of imitation games: You have an ability to accept other cultures.

　　If you copied everything your parents did even if it didn't make sense, you developed a willingness to assume that actions have some "unknown" purpose. This will make you more open to sharing and transmitting culture later on in life.

　　You were spanked: You're a sneaky adult.

　　If you were spanked often as a child, you'll likely resort to misbehaving even more, but you'll learn how to do it without getting caught. Eventually, you'll become a very sneaky adult.

　　You had an intimate relationship with your father: You're able to maintain intimacy now.

　　If you had an emotional connection with your father as a child, you'll be able to enter a healthy, physically intimate relationship with a partner later in life.

　　You experienced childhood trauma: You suffer from obesity.

　　Several studies have shown a correlation between sexual abuse — and other traumatic childhood experiences — and eating disorders.