80. A custom from your country that you would like people from other countries

to adopt

Describe a custom from your country that you would like people from other countries to adopt. Explain

your choice, using specific reasons and examples.

『分析』

随便找一个。比如外国人来到中国，习惯一件事情，付账的时候不要go Dutch，很讨厌。

『范文』

My favorite custom from Chinese culture that I wish that other countries would adopt is "Respect the Old,

Love the Young." These two ideas have been part of traditional Chinese culture for thousands of years, but they

are more important than ever in contemporary Chinese culture. If adopted by Western countries, these two

traditional attitudes could help them solve some of their social problems.

One major problem in many Western countries is what to do with old people when they can no longer take care

of themselves. A Chinese family will often have three generations of one family living under the same roof. They

love and respect the older generation, and consider them wise. Western people believe that living with one's own

parents is inconvenient and embarrassing. Instead of respecting old people, some think that they are stupid and ugly.

When Western families' parents get old, they would rather send them into nursing homes and retirement homes

than live together with them. Only old and sick people live in these places and they are considered depressing, in

the worst cases they might seem like a prison to their inhabitants. Old people in the West would be much happier

if they adopted these traditional Chinese attitudes.

Juvenile delinquency is another serious social problem in Western cultures. Its causes can also be traced back

to a lack of respect for old people and love for young people. Children are not taught to respect the wishes of their

parents and instead value their relationships with their friends more. Because in many Western families both parents

have jobs outside of the home, children often lack adequate supervision. Chinese families, by contrast, often have at

least one parent, or a grandparent at home to take care of and love the children. Children without proper guidance

and love from a young age might start to smoke, drink, use drugs, and commit crimes. This occurs much less

frequently in China because people pay more attention to their children and have the children's grandparents nearby

to help raise them.

The West puts the "Individual" before the "Family". Traditional Chinese culture puts the interests of the Family

first, and the Individual second. Chinese mothers and fathers place higher value on their child's development, than

on their child's independence. Children place a higher value on then-parents' happiness than on their own

convenience. While there are many excellent lessons that Chinese people can learn from the West, Western people

would do well to learn from these essential Chinese traditions.