We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics.
如果我们成为鼓励者而不是批评者，我们可以大幅度改善与他人的关系。
illusive adj.
[ɪˈluːsɪv]
based on or having the nature of an illusion
幻影的，错觉的，迷惑人的
例句：
With the development of network, illusive reality is turning cyber one.
随着网络的发展，虚幻的现实变成虚拟的现实。
